Relationships:There are a number of factors that go into creating a loving relationship. Certainly it helps if two people have some things in common regarding how they like to spend their time.
It also helps if they have common values around religion or spirituality, around politics, the environment, abortion, and personal growth.
It helps if they both eat junk food or both eat organic food. It makes things easier if both are neat or both are messy, if both are on time people or both are late people. Physical attraction is also quite important. It’s great if they have common values around money and spending.
Yet a couple can have all of these and still not have a loving relationship if one element is missing. Without this essential ingredient, all the other wonderful attributes will not be sufficient to make the relationship work.
This Essential Ingredient Is About Intention.
At any given moment, each of us is devoted to only one of two different intentions: to control or to learn. When our intention is to control, our deepest motivation is to have control over getting love, avoiding pain, and feeling safe.
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